Friends & The People Who Come Around Who You think Are Friends By Ru-Kun

Hello everyone and how is it going today? I hope you guys are doing well and being safe out there. I’m, doing ok, just stressed out a little bit and probably going to be a little depressed as I write this blog post as it going to be a little hard to write about. At times it felt like something is trying to stop me from writing this post. In fact I created this post about a week maybe after my wedding and having really been able to work on it since then. But I have created other content so I still have been able to get stuff posted on the site.

Now first I’m going to say that at the age of 42 I’m still learning new things and what not including human behaviors. At this age I had thought some people in my life would have a a little bit more consideration, thoughts, and other all respect for such a friendship. Fuck, I don’t know. Maybe I’m just having a hard time trying to figure out how to explain it. But one thing I have always found is that when it come to anything in human nature actions speak louder then words. A lot of people seem to only do things when they get something in return or some sort of benefit from such a situation. I’m really just at a loss of words of how to explain this above so I’m sorry if I’m not making this clear. So I will just jump into the situation that prompted me to write this although I would have written a different style post as I kind of want to write something out of my experiences of life that could hopefully help others. 

So anyways, over the years I thought my group of friends were close enough to be considered true friends. Over the years my some people who were friends seem to have exited my life for one reason or another, most reason are for fucked up shit like stealing, lack of care of support of whatever, like goals and what not. Sad, reality is a lot of my life I done just that for others, no always because no one is perfect, but I don my best to try and raise up others I care or cared about. I would like to go in to this a bit further but I want to leave that from another post/time as I’m planning on sharing my story of my life and some of the shit I have been through or seen/experienced. 

So, for most of all your readers out there I recently had my wedding to my best friend and love of my life and in fact my very first wedding at 42 years old. I’ll be 43 soon. Now we planned it for a year, maybe a bit longer but we did plan ahead and in the beginning I starting asking my friends and family that I thought would most likely to say yes. Those I thought would say yes did and with that being said they were that first ones I had got on my coming list. Then, some people I contacted that I thought might come. Some gave answers or maybes other didn’t even respond, it kind of frustrated me. I have a hard time focusing on things with the amount of stuff I got going on including doing my best to overcome what covid has done to my small little business and projects including this Thoughts Of Everything project. Now, fucking not getting answers made it harder for me to finish gathering thing I needed and what so some invites went out a bit later. Also, it seem as if some people didn’t even get an invite when I sent them out or at least that is what I was told. One even said he got his opened with a bunch of other mail in a big envelope after I had brought him a second one which sucked as my awesome and beautiful wifey put some time into them. Like magic, bitches LOL.

But either way, I had good size list of people that said they were going to come and good amount of people from my supposedly group of friends. It’s hard to say what kind of shit went on but either way this article is how it turned out and prompt for my post creation as stated earlier. Now we got head counts the closer my wife and I had got out head counts of who was coming the closer it got to the wedding as we had to make sure to have enough food and seating. Now a couple people RSVPed back to whether they were going or not some did but I knew they said they were coming. 

Now the closer we got to the wedding the closer we were needing to get thing done and rehearse how the ceremony would go and with this being said  I contact the ones who were supposed to be in my wedding party and let them know we were having a that Sunday a couple day before May 17, 2022. I didn’t really ask for much let alone had any of my friends help out for my wedding. One friend who is the one of my wedding party told me he wasn’t coming at this point. This fine as he told and let me know a head time and there was a fix in the number of horned cups we order for all those in the wedding party. Now I still didn’t hear back from the other wedding party member at this point for the wedding rehearsal. Wedding rehearsal day beside my awesome family, one friend from my wedding party showed up and helped out with out being asked Thank you True Doz’ia you are a true friend. I did hear from another friend before this about him possible getting 

Wedding day is here and the ceremony was planned to be at 1pm. @Vivicawolf and I got there pretty earlier to get ready and people started showing up around 10ish-11isham. Pictures were suppose to be at 12pm. True Doz’ia show up as he was the one I decided to have as my witness and one of my groomsmen. Thank god I didn’t choose the other person to be my witness. Now the closer we got to picture time 3 groups of my friends were not there yet one being part of my groomsmen. So we did pictures without him as we couldn’t wait any longer. The time is a little bit after 1pm when we are suppose be doing the ceremony the 3 group of friends did not show up, one supposed to be my groomsmen. Now we decided to start the ceremony with out them. BTW Still heard nothing from any of them, fucking stupid. Now, I finally heard from the long lost groomsmen is a Facebook comment on a picture I posted after we did the ceremony. Basically, one friend and his wife I never met showed up and my family. God damned awful one friend of the supposedly the so called big group of friends I have. Kind of hurtful as well. Lot of my family said those people aren’t my friends. Kind of show it to me as well But it is kind of hurtful. Though, my year behind me has also slightly desensitize to this kind of bullshit.

I will say this blog post was pretty hard to write but I’m glad I did. Now like said earlier I plan on writing my story a bit more but I plan on making them member only post to get you to create an account on our site and something things discuss might not be so public/NSFW so that what I plan. I seen a lot of bullshit in my life and been bullied a lot during my school year so maybe if can help someone else but maybe to also help myself. Now I also want to mention that my step kid came out as my trans son with his best man speech which was important for him and was super hard because my wife’s family is super Republican’s and conservative. Even sat their table and talked shit about him while he gave his speech which I was super fucking proud of. Now I wonder if those 3 groups of friends would have talked shit as well because they are also super republican/conservative. It’s hard to say because those assholes didn’t even some 2 never contacted me at all. Fuck them.

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If Your WordPress Website Owner “Stop Spammers” Is A Plugin You Need

I will say that I have  Hello everyone how are you all doing today? Hopefully your all are being safe out there. I know I’m doing my best to be safe. I think we all get through this and thank you to those we have lost during this whole pandemic thing. With this being said I would also like to thank those of you who are essential workers and/or have been working the whole or most of the pandemic where you live. I have been working myself and again doing my best to stay safe. Sucks that others don’t as much. But I’m waiting to be able to get my vaccine and it sucks as I wasn’t able to qualify even with Asthma and working as a cleaner for a cleaning company. Anyways, that’s enough of that stuff and we shall move on.

So for those who maybe be reading this post and/or visiting this site for the first time, out website, Thoughts Of Everything runs on a blog type website script called WordPress and basically we are a blog and I, Rukun and the owner/creator of this site. But see and have been working on making something bigger then a little blog. But I have a couple of blogs on blogger that I don’t really post on them any more but we still maintain them for historical purposes and I had most of the post so far into this blog and those blog and a community style anime website which is the name of our anime category. But anyways some of the things I write about and investigate bring a lot of haters. I like to write about legit ways to make extra money online and as well also write about scams. Since the full launch of this site I have had one such problem scammer after I had confronted the scammer and the very first post I wrote about the bastard had disappeared after my webserver had got hacked or DDoS attacked while I was sleeping and was unable to recover the original. Since then I had add more then one type of security items to the site since this little bastard and then on top of that pretty much all website owners who allow some sort of communication with their whatever type of website deals with spammers and bots. 

So one such nice little plugin that I installed after this fucking thing pardon my language sorry not sorry but that how I feel. Anyways, this little plugin called Stop Spammers along with another plugin that I believe used to be default with WordPress called limit login attempts which has helped out a lot. Now what is nice about Stop Spammers is that plugin is that it allows you to use such services API keys like StopForumSpam, Project Honeypot, and BotScout. This gives it even more protection the the problematic spammers from around the need mean these ones hit a lot of sites and discussion forums, etc other type of sites.

So with just this bit I have stated I have been using the free version of this plugin and along side Limit Login Attempts Reloaded / Limit Login Attempts on the site for while. It many protections options such as blocking people who using what is called disposable emails to hidden who they are or check for exploits. There is also options for create your own blocklist or block whole countries. Now we don’t currently or hope to ever block any country on this site. Regardless, we have had a lot of extra protection with the Stop Spammers plugin which is kind of one of those must haves if you run a WordPress website and allow users to register. Since I have installed the plugin 2018/04/10 223992 spammers have been blocked by the plugin.

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First Payment From Ad Hits 4U Traffic Exchange

First Payment From Ad Hits 4U Traffic Exchange

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Hello everyone Rukun/MrRuste here. I hope you all are staying safe out there. So I got some great news as far as to my testing of traffic exchange sites. And I’m doing my best to bring you all some of the best most accurate information in the work from home and earning online industry.  The sad reality is that there is too many scammers out there as a of risk shit. As was stated by the administrator of the website Ad Hits 4U which will be mainly discussing in this article. LOL, actually this is the purpose of this article. But anyways he told me once that 99% of  earning websites/apps/etc are scams. That is a very bad statistic and I’m working trying to change that. One by the blogging I’m doing and I also myself run my own site and scammers had made it hard for an honest business own such as myself of the owner of Ad Hits 4U. I do have a trusted Elite site list but very small and this site as well as the rest of the sites the admin of Ad Hits 4U traffic exchange runs. These site are Mystics Clicks (which I designed some banners for)Bankroll Clicks, and Police PTC.

So Ad Hits 4U is a traffic exchange where you can surf for surf credits that can be used to deliver hits to your websites, youtube/twitch videos, etc online media. I use traffic exchange lately to drive traffic to may pages such as this website and my business pages as well. So while I’m doing that some programs such some offer chances to earn cash and Ad Hits 4U does offer commissions and surfing bonuses and what not. You’ll have to refer people to sales commissions which if you join I will be you upline and would like you to join Thoughts Of Everything to stay in contact and get bonus for you activity as my download as I will do my best to help you along so you can earn as well as be safe I’m working on a project called #BetterHumansSociety which will have some part is help keep the net clean of scammers and I want to start an earn to team from around the world to help keep the net clean as we can’t just depend on other to do that for us.

Well crap I got side tracked, back to Ad Hits 4U. So this site has pretty cheap pricing for advertising if you don’t want to surf there is enough of us to surf though there is that saying the more the better. But anyways the only options for both payouts and purchases is Skrill (click here to get Skrill account). But he may allow purchasing with Bitcoin or other cryptocurrency as I know has has taken it before. So the owner’s name is Terry and he is also without a home so he is doing his best and you truly supporting someone in a sense. He does a good job too plus help me out after dealing with a pretty bad scammer situation I discussed that in a Thoughts Of Everything donator only article at this time for security reasons. Anyway his site have been online for as while now and all site in his network are about to be moved off my testing list as I got to be fair. So below is my first payment received $2.27 which goes to help keep thoughts of everything online as well as my other projects. As stated payment was received through Skrill (click here to get a Skrill account: https://account.skrill.com/signup?rid=103172406) Paid on May 17th 2020 which is fact is my girlfriend’s and my 8 year anniversary which was nice to see that. XD Here is my screenshot below

Ad Hits 4U first payment

Anyways, that about it for the moment if you would like to join under me on Ad Hits 4U please click this link: http://adhits4u.info/?rid=1160

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